So chatting to a friend of mine about Relationships and Love... Blah!! Blah!! Blah!! Your probably thinking, Whats new there!! Well my friend is just a very visibly happily married woman, with a little one on the way... So I asked her how she knew her husband was the one for her... And her simple answer really struck me! She didn't give me many stories! All she said was "Because he truly loves me..." And that caught me cause we usually over-complicate things, over-think, over-analyse, but when it's truly meant to be... It's so easy! There is no doubt in your mind... Because This Love... His Love... Brings with it security and a peace of mind that sets such a calm tone in your life to complete the beautiful puzzle that it is...
She was however more aware of how to tell the real from the fake, only after experiencing the complete opposite of what she is now, so now her advise to me is always watch out for the warning signs and take heed... Your Gut! That sixth sense that we women are all blessed with is indeed your best friend... So when in doubt... In conflict with self and confusion starts to creep in... Be Still and listen to the message there in...
It's not always easy to walk away especially if that union was not based on the heart and mind equation, but once you realise that there is indeed far much more than fireworks, then your probably ready for a Mature relationship... But also a dose of wisdom one of my aunties left with me, which is some critical advise ladies! "Be with a man who loves you more than You do Him!!"... Yup! I said it! even the good book calls for Men to Love! their wives! Key word here is Love! and all we're asked to do is to submit! And really if you think about it, Women really flourish and glow when they have a man who loves them... And Men also flourish in every area of their lives if they have a woman at home who respects them and creates a peaceful Environment for them to return to Everyday...
Ladies never take for granted! when he comes back home everyday, actually chooses to come home, stay home, enjoy you and the home you've made... It means your doing your job well...
No Man's an Island... So to all those on a journey to find their LOVE!!... All the Best... Remember Heart and Mind!! & Have all the difficult conversations before you commit.. So that your both well aware of what your getting into!! And expectations that are not met are such a downer, so also remember that your both imperfect humans! But that's no excuse to be lazy... It takes work! Everyday intentionally find ways to show him/her that you treasure them...
That is All... Bless:-)
